“There is no right thing, you know.  And no wrong thing, either.  There is just the thing that you do.

And so you do it.  You close your eyes and leap and you try to do it the best you can.  And given how fucked up and crazy and brilliant and lovely and impossible it all is; the best you can is no small thing.

And eventually you’ll come out of it.  With all the things you thought you did right and every last thing you worried you’ve done wrong.  They’ll just be done and they’ll have worked their alchemy on your soul and you’ll be in a different place.

Trust me.  I know.”